tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36001918481709821312024-02-02T01:47:49.137-08:00Women & Relationshipsmodernwoman1018http://www.blogger.com/profile/11686357154686630934noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600191848170982131.post-66984803300325805952017-03-05T21:52:00.002-08:002017-03-19T20:42:42.771-07:00The Cost of Disobedience<div style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: small;">
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Experience will really change you, especially if you apply the lessons you have learned from it. I have been a Christian for many years now but only lately did I really get serious in obeying Him. There are still so many things that I am struggling to change but as what Philippians 1:6 says-</div>
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I remember the car accident I had a few years ago. Before I tell you the story, let me share with you a bit of my old me... I was arrogant, careless, stubborn and a know-it-all kinda gal. Every time my dad rides with me, he would tell me to slow down and yield, BUT, (you've guessed it) I still drove recklessly telling him I can do it without him telling me to be careful. My brothers would tell it to me in a different way, they would jokingly say "<i>Sis, you are a dangerous driver and people should not be crossing when you drive</i>". My husband would always remind me to focus on the road but I didn't. It made me more proud--- Stupid me! Hmmm, so much for that. </div>
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One fateful day, while I was driving alone to run an errand, after making a few turns, I realized I was lost. I can't remember the way to where I was supposed to go. So I did what most drivers would do, I turned on the GPS of my mobile phone, being neglectful, I turned it on while I was driving not noticing I was turning at a blind curve. All of a sudden, I heard a thud! ...When I looked back on the road, to my utter shock, I saw a man lying on the street and realized I just hit a pedestrian. I panicked and instead of hitting the brakes, I stepped on the accelerator. A series of smashing sounds followed. I hit a company car at the opposite road, I hit a private car parked in front of a car wash, and I crushed one of the cement posts of the car wash shop. </div>
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At that instant, I realized that God truly loves me, indeed it is a miracle! He didn't let me die, He didn't let the man that I hit die, in short, no one died but there was a huge damage done - without thinking twice, I went out of the car telling everyone I was so sorry. I took all the blame. I deserved it. I left the car at the accident scene and rushed the unconscious wounded man to the emergency room at a nearby hospital. The rest was history.</div>
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The cost of my disobedience? The traffic enforcer confiscated my license, we lost the car and paid more than $3000 for all the damages. </div>
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If God didn't allow the accident to happen, I will not be fully aware that He wants me to LISTEN, to OBEY, and to TRUST in Him. We must never forget that we have a God who loves us and who really cares for us. He displayed it by giving us eternal life through His Son Jesus Christ. This is a gift that is more valuable than our life on earth. :)</div>
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modernwoman1018http://www.blogger.com/profile/11686357154686630934noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600191848170982131.post-72507661710804152282012-03-20T03:05:00.000-07:002013-12-10T18:26:13.576-08:00Show Love To Your Mother<div style="text-align: justify;">
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post. For the past few months, I’ve been busy visiting relatives and friends
and running errands for my parents at the same time celebrating Christmas and
New Year with them. After New Year, I went back home (which is in a different
country) and continued on my daily routine. Life is full of surprises indeed
(good and bad). After several weeks, I received an email saying my mom had a
stroke and is in a critical condition. My husband and I agreed that I have to
fly back to be with her. Ironically, she already passed away even before I
arrived. IT REALLY HURTS. I never thought that would be my last moments with my
mom. I realized, we totally don’t have control in life, we just have to give it
all up to GOD and trust Him in EVERYTHING.</span><span style="font-family: Garamond, serif; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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value of life itself by acting as a guardian angel whenever you experience
roughness and discomfort in life. Nowadays, we take less importance in valuing
motherhood. Amidst our busy schedule, I suggest we spare some time to give our
mother the appreciation and the care that she needs.</span></div>
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don't say it out loud but when we make the first move by offering her a hair
makeover, or maybe a manicure and a pedicure, they will be so happy and be
thankful to you for being sensitive to their needs. (</span><i><span style="color: #990000; font-family: Garamond, serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">You can also try to treat her for a spa or a whole
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surely revitalize her energy and outlook in life. Try bringing her on a countryside
away from all the city lights and busy highways and experience the serenity of
that town or maybe to the beach and enjoy the sunset together.</span><span style="font-family: Garamond, serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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there whenever you need her, for the wisdom she gives you each day, for her
constant love, for the amazing dish she serves you, and for other things she have done for you. It may be in a form of a gift, a bouquet of flowers, or even just saying a heartfelt “THANK YOU MOM”.</span><span style="font-family: Garamond, serif; font-size: 13.5pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Garamond, serif; font-size: 13.5pt;">I'm really going to miss
my mom dearly, so to my valued readers, don't ever stop showing love and
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modernwoman1018http://www.blogger.com/profile/11686357154686630934noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600191848170982131.post-36338193592528167852011-09-28T04:20:00.000-07:002012-03-12T00:25:01.726-07:00STAY HAPPILY MARRIED<br />
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those who are married for quite some time now ... how’s it going? Marriage is
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your spouse? How you felt that night and how you don’t want the night to end?
It is good that once in a while you have to reminisce those dating days with
your spouse because it will give you a romantic mood.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">©<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #990000;">L</span></span></b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130;">isten To Each Other – Pay attention not only to words but
also to the expression and mood of your partner. Learn to listen to understand
rather than listening to argue and NEVER ignore.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">©<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #990000;">C</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130;"><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">aress As You Would Be Caressed – I’m talking about physical warmth
and affection, your comforting touch that will make him/her feel loved and
wanted. Remember, marriages fade from lack of closeness. So what are you waiting for? Make a
move and give him/her a kiss, a hug, and a snuggle. The best time to do it is NOW. </span><span style="font-family: Wingdings; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">J</span></span><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">©<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;"> </span></span></span><b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #990000;">P</span></span></b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130;">rovide Each Other Appreciation – “You look beautiful” “Thanks
honey (<i>or whatever you call each other</i>)”
“I like your haircut” and a lot more. Appreciating your partner will make
him/her feel comforted and admired in a deeper way.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">©<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #990000;">L</span></span></b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130;">ove One Another – The best thing you can give your partner
is the gift of Love. Genuine love is priceless, more precious than a fancy car
or a diamond ring. </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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suspicion and doubt which will lead to an argument or a fight. It is best to be
open and share moments to your spouse, in this way doubt and suspicion will not
be able to destroy your relationship.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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being with different characteristics. Accepting the other as they are, as you
would have yourself accepted.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">©<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 7pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal;"> </span></span><b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #990000;">S</span></span></b><span style="font-family: Andalus, serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130;">oothe Each Other – Provide a sanctuary and refuge for each
other. It is one of the benefits of marriage that you both can enjoy for a
lifetime.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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to his/her own preferences and must be responsible for the results of the
choices that have been made. Value your partner's rights and he/she will do it in return.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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conclusion, both should work on it and must be
genuine to one another. You will always encounter arguments and fights but in
the end, love will be the strongest and deepest element in marriage, the
foundation of your union. Cherish it!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #4c1130;"><i><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; font-family: 'Adobe Caslon Pro', serif; font-size: 12pt;">From one another once you are agreed</span></i><i><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; font-family: 'Adobe Caslon Pro', serif; font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></span></span></div>
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</div>modernwoman1018http://www.blogger.com/profile/11686357154686630934noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600191848170982131.post-69390054898841491242011-08-20T11:08:00.000-07:002012-03-12T00:31:32.267-07:00RESPONSIBLE YOU<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><span style="color: #ff0066;">“<b>You are responsible for your own actions...</b>”</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #444444;"> I guess you’ve heard this statement before. This line MUST persistently play in our minds every time we have to make an important decision. I’m not talking about deciding what clothes to wear or what movie to watch but something that is life-changing. </span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #444444; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;">Have you ever been in a situation wherein you were so frustrated just because you listened to someone else’s advice and it turned out to be a fiasco? That you should have listened to your intuition? Well, don’t blame the poor fella ‘coz what that person did was just to give you an advice---it is up to you whether to take it or not. Accept the responsibility of your own action and stop making excuses. We have to learn from our mistakes and move on. It is good to ask for opinions from others especially if we are having difficulty to decide on our own, in fact, it is encouraged by many. But we have to REMEMBER ONE THING; we are the one who is in the situation therefore we must know better than the others. No one is in-charge of our life but us, not even our husband or our very best friend or even our friendly neighbour, just us. The reason why we are who we are right now is because we decided it to be. It is a fact that people around us are capable of influencing us but the last decision is always in our hands. </span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #330000;"><span style="line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I remember when I was experiencing a bad day; I would go straight to my best friend’s doorstep and be with her to ease my mood no matter what time it was. We’d talk for hours about anything and everything. In other occasions, she would call me to meet up for dinner and spend time talking about her love life. We have always been there for each other. However, life has to move on... I got married and I have to move to a different country. Now that we are miles apart, we still communicate through social websites and phone calls. <o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #330000;">It is easy to find a friend; you can find them on the streets, in a mall, at a coffee shop, or even inside a beauty salon but </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;">REMEMBER:</span></span><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="line-height: 115%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #741b47;"> real friends are like treasures</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #330000;">, they are hard to find. It takes time...a lot of time... to be able to build the bond and trust. These are the important ingredients of a good friendship. Once you built that strong connection, you have to be able to trust each other despite any circumstance that may occur. Of course, there will be times when your friendship will be tested. There will be arguments and fights but these are just trials. In the end, genuine friendship will last.</span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 115%;"> <br style="mso-special-character: line-break;" /> </span>modernwoman1018http://www.blogger.com/profile/11686357154686630934noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3600191848170982131.post-17696821663666967522011-05-18T08:00:00.000-07:002012-03-12T00:20:58.769-07:00What is your role in your relationship? As a woman how would you know if you really have control over your own relationship?modernwoman1018http://www.blogger.com/profile/11686357154686630934noreply@blogger.com1